Ask for it.

As I go through life I have come to a realization.

There are no mindreaders out there.

I remember a lot of times in my life when I expected people
to be mindreaders.

I would feel bad about something and expect people to just
"know" that I needed a hug.
Most of the time I didn't get that hug.

I would I would start doing some house cleaning and expect
others to "know" that I wanted some help.
Most of the time I ended up doing it by myself.

There were a lot of areas where I expected other people to
just "know" what I wanted or needed.
Most of the time they didn't.

I made an amazing discovery.

I need to ask for what I want.

That can be scary.

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